Steve Goodier

Life Support System
By Steve Goodier ©

PUTTING MORE LIFE IN YOUR LIVING

A mother eagerly opened a thick envelope from her son, who had recently moved to a small town in rural Texas. He wrote: "Hi, Mom, just wanted to let you know everything that's been going on around here."

The next four pages were blank.

Of course, he'll likely change his attitude about his new home once he begins making friends. Unless he learns a negative outlook so well that he keeps it on into adulthood. For many unhappy people, their despondency springs from no more than the fact that they have simply learned apathy and unlearned enthusiasm.

Have you heard of the four W's? These are words most of us use. Some of these words we use often; some not often enough. Here they are:

1. Wait. We use this word when we want to hold off on something new or risky or unusual.

2. Why not?  We say this when we're ready to move ahead.

3. Wow.  Unlike "wait" and "why not," this word is used far too infrequently. It denotes a deep sense of awe, an emotion linked to gratitude and wonder.

4. Whoopee!  Used rarely, "whoopee" expresses unrestrained joy and enthusiasm. Those adults who have learned to say "Whoopee!" know something about great living. When they retire at the end of the day, they often feel as if that day were lived to its fullness.

We can be so busy living life that we never put life in our living. Note how often you use these four words (or words like them): "Wait," "Why not?", "Wow" and "Whoopee!" As you put more life in your living, you'll find that you are living life more fully!

By Steve Goodier © 2003